This post was prompted by a long piece that Pussycat Catnap wrote on her blog, Observer Fantasy vs Particapatory Fantasy; The role of perspective in how we shape our avatars and characters in SL and other online games.
Have you ever looked at your avatar and thought “well (s)he looks nice” or some other third person observation? Or have you ever looked at thought “well, I look nice”?
Presuming for a second that your avatar actually did look nice to you… which of those two would be the most likely way for that thought to pop into your head?
In other words… are you observing your avatar or becoming your avatar?